Few of us will ever have the good fortune to grace the court of a packed NBA arena, so when the opportunity came for one young man, he had an understandable urge to make his presence known.
During halftime of many low-stakes games, pro sports teams often turn over their court during the 15-minute break to host amateur players, allowing wide-eyed kids to sample the sweet life of pro players, if only for a short time.
However, a halftime during a recent Memphis Grizzlies game provided more than enough time for a showy fan to ham it up for the crowd and flash a Marc Gasol jersey from under his team’s standard uniform. It may not have been representative of the team values we try to instill in young athletes, but it was nonetheless plenty entertaining.
It’s a testament to both the young man’s athletic ability and some truly lazy opposing defense that he’s able to pick the ball up after posturing — a blatant yet uncalled double dribble — and drive the length of the court for an easy shot. Sure, he may have all the trappings of a prima donna, but when you’ve got the talent to back up the spectacle … that’s star power.
With college and pro scouts eyeing younger and younger prospects, this type of display might just be good business sense.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.