It may be easy for a casual soccer fan to forget that a penalty kick doesn’t end at the point of impact, but you would expect a goalkeeper to bear that in mind when it matters most. Given the unlikely bounce that this penalty kick took in a match between two Thai teams, Bangkok Sports Club and Satri Angthong, it’s possible that the keeper simply didn’t think the ball had a chance of going in following his initial deflection.
He realized moments too late, well into his premature celebration, the folly of his judgment and raced to the goal in vain to stop an errant ball from crossing the line.
He didn’t make it, turning what would have otherwise been a spectacular save into a teachable moment for all the kids out there tempted to put pride before their on-field duties.
This display is far from the first time a goalkeeper celebrated too early but, frankly, one of the more understandable instances given the velocity of the ball following the deflection. But the point in maintaining one’s composure is to be prepared for the unexpected.
A litany of videos reveals that even the most seasoned keepers are subject to letting their emotions get the best of them, neglecting to account for unlikely spins and trajectories after the initial kick.
The play doesn’t end at the moment of contact, a fact that becomes painfully more clear when a goalkeeper forgets it.
Grieving couple comforting each other
This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.