When Mack Beggs won the Texas high school state wrestling championship in March, an uproar ensued. Neither side of the argument was happy with the outcome. The high school junior was born a girl, but is in the process of transitioning to become a boy. However, outdated rules by the University Interscholastic League (the governing body for high school sports in Texas) required Beggs to wrestle against the girls, instead of the boys he wanted to compete against.
In the wake of the controversy, the Texas Legislature decided to take action. But, instead of changing the rules to allow Beggs and other athletes to compete against the gender they identify with post-transition, this bill would just ban them outright.
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On Tuesday, the state Senate passed SB 2095, written by Republican Bob Hall under the guise of keeping steroids out of high school sports. The bill’s opponents didn’t fall for that concern-trolling spin.
"The real intent of the bill is to keep young transgender athletes from participating in sports," Democrat Sylvia Garcia of Houston, told CNN. "We need to make sure they're free to participate just like everybody else."
This bill works by creating a backdoor way to prevent the transgender students from competing. When an athlete like Beggs is transitioning, he takes steroids. However, because he has to compete against whatever gender is listed on his birth certificate, he remains in the girls division. Against girls, those steroids give him an advantage. So, steroids should be banned, right? Well, they already are.
An athlete can’t just take steroids for performance enhancement. However, there is a therapeutic-use exemption, meaning that an athlete can be on a doctor-prescribed steroid regimen and compete with the proper medical clearances. This bill would allow the UIL to ignore legitimate medical usage of steroids and ban a competitor. If it passes the state house, Beggs may not get to defend his state title next year.
In the case of Beggs, this problem would be solved if the UIL would change the birth certificate rule and allow him to compete against boys. This bill, if it becomes law, will only make things worse. The Texas legislature and high school sports governing bodies across the country need to work on finding the most equitable and fair solution to allow transgender athletes to compete under their new gender. Passing outright bans is not the answer.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.