Few pairings of filmmaker and musician are more ideal than David Lynch and Nine Inch Nails’ Trent Reznor. Though their work is far-reaching and tough to pigeonhole, at the core they share a dark and surreal aesthetic—and they clearly established a feedback loop of inspiration, collaborating in various settings over the years. It’s the kind of inspiring artistic friendship that seems almost too perfect to be true.
But it was, and it all began in the late '90s, when Reznor’s management called with a bucket-list request: Lynch wanted him to work on his upcoming film, the mind-bending Neo-noir Lost Highway. Reznor was already a massive fan—as the musician told horror-film magazine Fangoria, Lynch was a personal "hero" and a kind of "mythical creature," with the director’s 1986 masterpiece Blue Velvet crucial in the "alternate trajectory of [his] life and certainly [his] artistic life." The partnership was fruitful: Reznor wrote two new songs for the film ("Driver Down" and the minor Nine Inch Nails hit "The Perfect Drug"), helped create music for a pivotal scene, and even produced the official soundtrack.
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And it was probably the perfect omen that their first meeting felt like a nightmarish scene that could have come from Twin Peaks or Eraserhead. At the time, the Nine Inch Nails leader was living in New Orleans, and he invited Lynch to visit for a few days and "work on some sounds." When Lynch arrived, it was a foggy night at Reznor’s studio, located in a residential area uptown. "I guess he was driven and dropped off, because he suddenly emerges from the fog and—at that exact moment, from down a side street—two completely naked dudes also come walking out of the fog," he told Fangoria with a laugh. "It wasn't planned, just one of those random New Orleans experiences. I'll never forget the look on [Lynch's] face, like, “What the fuck is going on here?”
Reznor and Lynch exuded the same detached, mysterious sense of cool—likely the reason Rolling Stone decided to put both artists on a shared magazine cover back in 1997. "I’m a huge David Lynch fan—we used to hold up Nine Inch Nails shows just so we could watch the latest Twin Peaks,” Reznor told the publication. "So we set up a weekend for him to come to my place in New Orleans. At first, it was like the most high-pressure situation ever. It was literally one minute, ‘Hi, I’m David Lynch,’ and he’s cooler than I even imagined he would be. Three minutes later, he’s saying: ‘Well, let’s go in the studio and get started.’"
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But Reznor’s Lynch fandom isn’t just a fun factoid—it actually informed his music, particularly Nine Inch Nails’ meticulously crafted sound design. "I was very much inspired by the films of David Lynch—not so much what the music was doing but what the sound was doing," he recalled in a 2020 episode of Netflix series Song Exploder focused on 1994’s "Hurt." "There’s a radiator [in Eraserhead], and I feel like I’m going crazy. Why is that? Oh, 'cause that humming sound in the room is super loud. It could miraculously make you feel incredibly uncomfortable. It’s not all meant to just repulse you—but to be able to emotionally set the stage for what I was trying to get across. So we started laying in subliminal sounds throughout the whole record."
That influence led to further collaborations: Lynch directed Nine Inch Nails’ beautifully disorienting video for 2013’s "Came Back Haunted," and Reznor’s band appeared in the iconic eighth episode of 2017's Twin Peaks: The Return, playing "She’s Gone Away"—a song written specifically for the show.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.