On Monday night, the Philadelphia Eagles improved to 6-1 after a strong performance against Washington. While most players would celebrate the next day by relaxing on their victory Tuesday, three Eagles players instead hopped on a train to the Pennsylvania state capitol in Harrisburg to lobby state lawmakers.
Just hours after they finished MNF, Malcolm Jenkins, Torrey Smith and Chris Long are on... https://t.co/5HjgcdqBjG pic.twitter.com/vm3Ps8gv5D
— Jim Witalka (@jwitalka) October 24, 2017
Malcolm Jenkins, Chris Long, and Torrey Smith went to Harrisburg to encourage lawmakers to support the Clean Slate Act. This proposal would automatically seal criminal records of people convicted of nonviolent misdemeanors after 10 years. Past convictions would no longer appear on background checks, making it easier for those with criminal records to find employment. The players also discussed mandatory minimum prison sentencing and transparency in policing.
The issue is personal for Jenkins. His younger brother was convicted of marijuana possession as a juvenile, which made it difficult for him to find employment as an adult. “It takes a lot of sacrifice but the ball has been rolled and that’s a good thing,” Jenkins told NBC Philadelphia. “We’ve seen other guys getting involved in their communities, other teams, other players. And a lot of that comes from leading by example.”
All three Eagles players are members of the Players Coalition, a group of more than 40 NFL players who’ve come together to push for changes to America’s criminal justice system. “We want to lend our voices to changing this flawed system, which is crippling our nation and especially affects people who are poor or of color,” Jenkins wrote in The Washington Post. Jenkins and retired Pro-Bowler Anquan Bolden announced the formation of the coalition in a video in September.
In our own words. This is not about protest. This is about reform. #PlayersCoalition pic.twitter.com/c8jLkqPD7T
— Malcolm Jenkins (@MalcolmJenkins) September 6, 2017
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.