At the recent BET Awards, rapper Eminem shocked the audience with an impressive four-and-a-half minute freestyle performance taped in advance from the rapper’s hometown of Detroit. The lyrical display touched on many social issues including the Puerto Rico hurricane devastation, the Las Vegas shooting, the NFL’s anthem protest controversy, and Trump’s waged war against the NFL to the exclusion of his other presidential duties.
The a capella performance aired for the ceremony’s Miami audience when it was filmed on Oct 6, but the awards show wasn’t televised until Tuesday, Oct. 10, on BET.
In the controlled fury of the freestyle, Eminem offered a message of support to Colin Kaepernick, who many feel sacrificed his career, perhaps unknowingly so, when he refused to stand for the national anthem performance as a San Francisco 49er last season. This year, the former Pro Bowler finds himself without a team, but as an icon for the anthem protests, which have taken on a life of their own over a year later.
Eminem put a fist up in solidarity after name-checking the quarterback and encouraged him to “keep that shit balled up, like Donald the bitch!”
The legendary rapper ended his performance with a powerful sign-off saying that his pro-Trump fans can’t have it both ways. He closed:
“And any fan of mine who’s a supporter of his/ I’m drawing in the sand a line/ You’re either for or against/ And if you can’t decide who you like more and you’re split/ On who you should stand beside/ I’ll do it for you with this.”
“This” was, of course, a middle finger pointed straight at the camera.
LeBron James, who has recently become less diplomatic in his observation about the Trump presidency, shared his enthusiasm for Eminem’s performance, decoding some of the imagery the rapper put forth in his verses.
Eminem said he wanted to draw a line in the sand during his freestyle, and he certainly seemed to do just that.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.