Before the Philadelphia Eagles and the New England Patriots take to the field for the Super Bowl this weekend, local youth football teams are celebrating the arrival of their new football fields. A trio of organizations including the NFL Foundation Grassroots Program, a national nonprofit organization called the Local Initiatives Support Corporation (LISC), and the Minnesota Vikings have worked together to refurbish 10 fields in Minnesota.
It’s part of a 20-year effort by the NFL to bring athletic fields to kids in under-resourced communities in areas where the League has a team. To date, the NFL Foundation and LISC have spent over 40 million together to refurbish or create more than 350 fields in 100 cities, with LISC helping to serve rural communities in 44 states. Fields are newly built or significantly renovated, with improvements including irrigation systems, lights, bleachers, scoreboards, goal posts, and turf.
Safe spaces to play are not only good for kids, they’re good for communities. A report from the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation concludes that activity-focused spaces in neighborhoods have a significant impact on mental health, and violence prevention, lowering the risk factors for chronic disease, higher graduation rates, more cooperation among neighbors, and other benefits.
The Vikings have contributed $1.6 million toward the most recent local efforts in Minnesota in advance of this year’s Super Bowl, helping to refurbish athletic fields and recreational areas such as the Jimmy Lee field where St. Paul’s new mayor, Mayor Melvin Carter, used to play as a child. The much-used field, built in the 1960s, had fallen into disrepair, but was renovated in 2012 with astroturf, lighting, landscaping, additional fields, and even a play area for smaller children. Today, Mayor Carter has had the opportunity to see his own children play on the very same field.
In another local neighborhood, students at Como Park Senior High had never been able to host a varsity football game. Now they have a field where they can host home games for the first time ever. The positive change in not just the facilities — but in the players and community — could be felt almost immediately.
“Playing before was tough,” former Central High School student, Opi Aghenu, said of his school’s football and baseball fields before the renovations by the NFL and LISC. “It was a great improvement to come in, as a player, and play for the first time in my life on a real field. And more people showed up for the games! It was packed. The field wasn't an eyesore anymore; it was something to be proud of."
Aghenu also spoke about the confidence it gave him as he went on to play football at nearby Concordia College in St. Paul this year, something Maurice Jones, LISC chief executive, knows about on a personal level. The former high school state champion quarterback is passionately invested in the ways football and other sports can help youth develop leadership skills and build relationships that can last a lifetime. He calls it the “highlight of his upbringing” in rural Virginia.
“I know the power of sports,” he said, “And the relationships with coaches, and relationships with teammates, and learning fair play, and the discipline you need to play at your highest level, competing with honor — those were all lessons I learned on the football field, and lessons I’ve taken with me throughout life.”
Grieving couple comforting each other
This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.