On the campus of the University of Oklahoma, a contentious situation took an inspirational turn when a man yelling hateful rhetoric targeted nearby students and reportedly tried to “incite a riot.”
Not one to stand idly by as the situation escalated, Oklahoma Sooner running back Najee Bissoon took action in a very measured way – he started speaking, too.
The football player didn’t hesitate to grab a megaphone and began countering the hate speech with a message of unity and togetherness.
Fortunately, Andrew Clark, an editor for the student newspaper, OU Daily, was in attendance and caught the moving words on camera so that the message would reach an audience beyond just those in attendance.
Here’s a clip of the student-athlete in action:
Shortly thereafter, the man spouting rhetoric, realizing he had lost his audience, packed up and was escorted off by campus police.
In an interview with the school newspaper, Bissoon offered up a beautifully simple explanation of why he sprung to action in the face of the volatile situation:
"You've always got to be active. As long as you're sitting back and just watching, I feel like you're condoning what's going on. You're letting what's going on take place.
"I took action due to the fact that I saw everyone getting all riled up. I saw everyone getting all angry. I feel like, yeah they have a right to feel that way, but that energy everyone was feeling, if they channel that into the right things, everything will be better, like if we channel that energy into becoming one."
After making his speaking, Bissoon then led a prayer among those standing with him.
Word of the Bissoon’s actions spread quickly, and the next morning OU football coach Bob Stoops tweeted out this letter of recognition from Steven J. Lee, an administrator for the school:
The letter reads:
“I wanted to let you know that I believe this campus was made better today by the actions of Najee Bissoon. I was asked by a supervisor to go to the south oval and help with a situation that had started to gain attention. When I arrived, I watched a hate speech spreading man start attacking our students and trying to incite a riot. While other students stood by an watched or joined in a shouting match with he man, Najee stepped up, grabbed a megaphone and spread a message of togetherness with all his fellow students. He stood next to the despicable man and counter-argued everything he tried to say with a calm and collected attitude. After Najee had showed that our campus would not be torn apart, the man decided to pack up and leave while being escorted by campus police.”
Moments before that the letter found its way online, Najee Bissoon offered a moving message via Twitter that serves as a perfect encapsulation of his act:
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.