Speaking to a Rotary Club in Madison last week, Milwaukee Bucks president Peter Feigin didn’t mince words when speaking about his club’s hometown, which has been declared the most segregated city in the entire nation. In remarks made to the group, he stated, point blank:
“Very bluntly, Milwaukee is the most segregated, racist place I’ve ever experienced in my life. It just is a place that is antiquated. It is in desperate need of repair and has happened for a long, long time. One of our messages and one of our goals is to lead by example.”
While his comments, however bleak, are refreshing from a team principal so closely tied to the city and its residents, he’s hoping that by acknowledging the issues, his organization can do what little it can to improve the situation in the city.
He prefaced the above comments by declaring:
“We know we can’t cure the world. But we are very determined to get ourselves involved in programs that we can measure a difference in and put our claws into for a long period of time and show a difference.
Of course, criticism has already started to take shape, with many claiming the hypocrisy and ingratitude of these remarks after the team has received $250,000,000 in benefits from the state and local governments. Others find the fact that this indictment doesn’t carry as much weight as it would from a “local” owner, seeing as Feigin hails from New York originally. Nonetheless, recently, the Milwaukee mayor Tom Barrett has joined the conversation.
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Rather than deny the accusation, he stated he’s eager to work with the Bucks to address the issues Feigin put forth in his comments. Following what he calls a “good conversation” with Feigin, Barrett said, "I hope we can change his feelings, but to do that, we've got a lot of work to do. And I know that, and he knows that."
Last month, Milwaukee was the subject of national attention following citywide protests over the police shooting of a 23-year-old man, Sylville Smith in what appeared to be a routine traffic stop.
It’s unclear what steps Feigin and the club will take to improve the situation, but earlier remarks suggested the sponsorship of programs in the realm of education, jobs creation, and wellness. At the very least, his comments will further the type of discussion that tends to wane after the cameras go away and the public moves on to new stories. His statement should keep the cities issues in the mind of the city, the state, and the nation just a bit longer if nothing else.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.