Controversial NFL quarterback Colin Kaepernick may be without a job at the moment, but he’s using his newfound free time to help the disenfranchised find employment for themselves.
The former 49ers quarterback, known for his controversial decision to kneel during the pregame national anthem, arrived two days ago outside a New York City parole office with two boxes of his custom-made suits to donate to 100 Suits, a nonprofit that helps men and women who are looking for work find free or affordable professional clothing.
Nonetheless, Kap’s flashy suits were well-received by those in need. The 100 Suits organization has found that parolees or the otherwise marginalized are less likely to experience recidivism if they find stable employment.
Amid the national anthem controversy, teams have been slow to move on Kaepernick, who, by all accounts, should be snatched up on the merits of talents. Earlier this year, Kaepernick pledged to donate $1 million to social causes and charities. According to The Undefeated, he’s made some impressive strides toward that goal:
In October, Kaepernick dished out gifts of $25,000 each to the Silicon Valley De-Bug, Causa Justa/Just Cause, Urban Underground, and Mothers Against Police Brutality. In November, in addition to his gift of $25,000 to the BYP100, he donated equal amounts to Gathering For Justice/ Justice League, Communities United for Police Reform, and the I Will Not Die Young Campaign.
He’s continuing to give even without an NFL deal in place, having donated $50,000 to Meals on Wheels after the charity was defunded by budget cuts initiated by the Trump administration.
Despite his prolific charitable activity, Kaepernick’s still several hundred thousand dollars short of his pledge, so we’re eager to see where he focuses his efforts and money next.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.