This little brother may not know exactly what’s going on, but that doesn’t keep him from putting an array of instincts on display. Unable to discern between the sport of wrestling and actual harm befalling his sister, the brave little boy rushes to the mats mid-match to assist in her defense.
Right away, we realize the boy has an innate and admirable compulsion to keep his family safe. While admirable in its own right, that’s not the only trait we see from the confused (but virtuous) lad.
In this video, you see the boy rush to his sister’s aid without hesitation once the first contact is made between the wrestlers.
Before he’s separated from the fracas amid laughter from the (slightly) older children looking on, we see, plain as day, that this kid knows how to fight. At the age of 3 or 4, he likely (and hopefully) hasn’t had any formal training in martial arts, but as this grainy still reveals, once atop his sister’s aggressor, he lands a pretty sweet kidney punch a moment before being pulled away.
That’s not something that’s taught. That’s 100% instinct, and the spectators agree. At the 0:50 mark, the person taking the video says, “I think he may be a wrestler.”
Whether or not the boy becomes a proper wrestler remains to be seen, but there’s little doubt, from his technique and eagerness to enter the fray, he’s a fighter already.
Grieving couple comforting each other
This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.