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From December 14 through December 25, GOOD Sports will feature the worthiest school athletic programs in need of funding.
New York’s P.S.181, an 85 percent black K-8 school in Flatbush, takes pride in its basketball program—organizing developmental teams and hosting clinics and counseling sessions led by the Brooklyn Ballers Basketball Mentoring Program. But one thing is holding the program back: lack of uniforms.
“In many cases the boys wear worn, old, or inappropriate outfits to practice,” Mr. Stuart, who teaches fifth grade and coordinates the basketball program, writes on DonorsChoose.org. He explains the impact:
It can at times provide moments of embarrassment and teasing from peers … A few times players have missed practice because they lacked the means to have a proper practice uniform. In some cases, arguments happened because of what someone was wearing.
To level the apparel playing field, Stuart is raising funds for new jerseys and basketball shorts. As he writes:
The physical appearance of an individual can shape how they feel about themselves. ... it can affect their confidence and performance in a positive way.
The basketball program needs $542 to restock its wardrobe and is now just $224 from that target. You can donate here.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.