On paper, it’s hard to object to the concept of biek-sharing programs in big cities. It creates a zero-emission, convenient mode of transport for all citizens at a low cost to the state. But as you’ll see, never underestimate the ability of people to turn something that’s nice on paper into a total trainwreck in practice.
In Shenzen, China, a bike-sharing program has been implemented that’s similar to ones such as CitiBikes in New York, but with one crucial difference – the bikes don’t need to be returned to locked “parking” stations like they do in NYC. Proper protocol is to simply set them by the curbside, but nothing is done to enforce that practice. Hopes have been high that this option would serve to significantly reduce the air pollution prevalent in Chinese cities.
So…this happens.
And this.
And this.
The bikes, which are distributed free of cost by manufacturers looking to promote their brands and do some social good, get the same treatment as cigarette butts or chewing gum that’s lost its flavor.
Since the bike-sharing users aren’t taking the duty upon themselves, it’s fallen to the police to remove them from sidewalks, where they block pedestrians, or from street corners, where they can block bike, emergency, and even traffic lanes.
Well, I supppose it could be worse…
Actually, no it, couldn’t. This is the most damage human nature could do with something as innocuous as a shared bike program.
Grieving couple comforting each other
This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.