My week had begun with very little energy and few expectations, and Seattle's cold weather spell had been doing work on me. I was standing at the stop for the route 7 bus, draped in a typical Monday's cynicism when I got an invitation to GOODFest (presented by Pixel, a phone by Google). A couple of text exchanges had turned what'd otherwise been an uneventful start to the week into a spontaneous night in the city.
After braving the cold, my friend and I were embraced by the intimate, mellow vibe Neumos is known for. There was a lively buzz around the bar area, with a reflection of "GOOD" cascading over the crowd. The energy was dope, and the room was littered by a medley of fashionable, beer-toting folks. My friend and I roamed a bit before finding a perching spot near the stage. Hollis, the host for the concert, got us going with vibrant energy before bringing Alicia Sanchez on for a few laughs. Sanchez held no punches during her wittingly self-aware tales of her childhood, from her one-ma'am-band whale watching club to her awkwardly creative retorts to bullies. I was into it, and the waves of chuckles around the venue suggested I wasn't the only one.
I was really excited to see the Seattle Rock Orchestra though. Any gang of badasses toting classical instruments is a juxtaposition worth listening to. Hollis joined the band onstage, along with a couple of handsome guys, to set a groovy bounce. I bobbed my head while playing around with the Pixel I was shooting on. Music venues are usually pretty challenging for mobile photography due to low light and the stark contrast between dark crowd scenes and neon stage lights. Unlike the iPhone camera, the Pixel gives you lots of controls and options to capture great shots without using external apps. There’s no lag time when launching the camera, which was the case with other camera apps I’ve used. The Pixel allows you to control exposure and focus really quickly, which is essential when shooting live performances.
We were all pretty excited for D.R.A.M. to hit the stage. You could feel the energy shift when he stepped out. The mood was high and vibe was thick. D.R.A.M. has an electric type of presence on stage, and the quick focus capability was clutch for capturing the liveliness of his performance. The Pixel performs like a pocket-sized HD video camera, too. The quality, especially when zooming is unparalleled. I was able to get some dope video of him engaging the crowd, as he flashed that smile that had the entire crowd swooning over bass-heavy tracks. I kept the camera locked in on the melodic rapper as he bobbed, weaved, and two-stepped around the stage. The carefree black boy joy was beautiful to experience. It was like he'd invited us all to a light-hearted house party. We danced, sipped, and vibed as if we'd known him personally. It's rare to find that kind of joy amongst strangers, especially in Seattle where the winter rains tends to keep us locked away in our cozy little cliques. It was a refreshingly unexpected turn for what'd begun as another mundane Monday. And I’ll be able to relive those moments in HD thanks to a solid performance by the Pixel.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.