“These darn kids and their phones!” isn’t just a boomer saying anymore. There has been a growing concern regarding how much time kids spend on their smartphones and what they are frequently exposed to on social media. There has been research showing that increased phone use and social media exposure has been linked to higher rates of depression, anxiety, low-self worth, and other mental health concerns. There are also safety issues of children getting scammed through social media. Use of smartphones at schools has gotten to the point where there are more and more smartphone bans for children inside--and sometimes outside--the classroom. Yet one study is arguing that banning smartphone access from kids isn’t the answer.
The British Medical Journal published a study that claimed that the answer shouldn’t be to take the phones away from children, but to educate them how to manage their phone and social media usage. They found that educating children more about how social media functions, how to spot scams, and establishing other safety regulations and boundaries proved to be more beneficial than outright banning phone use.
Firstly, the study looked at the data retrieved from an evaluation of student phone bans implemented in England and found that there was no evidence of restricted smartphone usage improving a student’s mental health, sleep quality, physical activity, classroom behavior, or their grades. Even if those phone bans showed improvement, there is no way to enforce them outside of school walls.
The study posits that the real answer is to have parents and teachers teach youngsters how to use their smartphones, influencing their relationship with them along with adopting and voting in laws and regulations that provide guardrails to protect kids while they use them.
Let’s be honest with ourselves. While there are definitely negatives about phone usage that could harm children, it is also a primary method of communication for 8 to 17-year-olds to engage with their friends socially and to learn about the world around them. This was especially true during the COVID-19 pandemic, in which Internet access was necessary for most of them to attend school and interact with their friends. The genie is out of the bottle for this generation.
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Along with that, banning social media and smartphone usage for children doesn’t prepare them for when they will have access to their devices as adults. Aside from not being prepared to discern a real offer from a scam online, the modern working world requires some form of Internet presence. There are more and more companies requiring job applicants to have a social media account on LinkedIn, for example.
This may be an extreme comparison, but in 1970 out of 100,000 children under 14-years-old, 10.5 of them were killed in an auto accident. That rate became four times lower by 2016. The rate didn’t go down due to banning children under 14 from being in cars or on the streets. It came from adding safety regulations such as requiring car seats and seat belts, enacting pedestrian safety laws, teaching traffic school to new drivers, and other such things to improve a child’s presence around a car. Why couldn’t the same be done for a smartphone?
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Giving children empowerment through educating them on how to use a smartphone safely can help prevent them from falling into traps while granting them access to the positive parts of the Internet. For example, teaching them how to spot common online scams, to discern what not to post on social media, how to protect their data, and how algorithms work can do a lot for them. Enacting certain regulations around children’s Internet and social media use aside from bans could encourage companies to create more kid-friendly digital products with guardrails and limitations that can benefit their young minds while protecting them.
Prohibition didn’t work. “Just say no” didn’t protect kids from drugs. Unlike those two examples, smartphone use can be a wonderful tool and a vice in one device. Dismissing the tool doesn’t make the vice go away.
Ketel Marte was brought to tears during an MLB game after facing a shameful fan taunt.
Baseball manager's poignant support for a player brought to tears after shameful fan taunt
Whether they’re expecting perfection from their favorite players or, worse, behaving callously toward opposing teams, sports fans often forget that athletes are human beings. But athletic competition has the ability to unify and uplift, even amid such painful and unpleasant encounters. Take, for example, a major-league baseball game held June 24, 2025 between the home team Chicago White Sox and visiting Arizona Diamondbacks.
A shameful low point occurred when Diamondbacks second baseman Ketel Marte was at bat in the seventh inning. Per ESPN, a fan reportedly yelled out a comment regarding Marte’s late mother, Elpidia Valdez, who died in a 2017 car accident in the Dominican Republic. Team personnel, including manager Torey Lovullo, then requested the 22-year-old fan be ejected. (Though he was remorseful and admitted his actions were inappropriate, according to an ESPN source, he was nonetheless banned indefinitely from all MLB ballparks.) "We commend the White Sox for taking immediate action in removing the fan," the MLB said in a statement. Marte reportedly declined to comment.
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While the fan’s behavior is inexcusable, it did spark a powerful and inspiring moment. After hearing the comment, Marte was visibly upset, prompting Lovullo to walk on the field, put his arm around him, and offer some words of encouragement. "[I said,] 'I love you, and I’m with you, and we’re all together, and you’re not alone,'" Lovullo said in a post-game interview, as documented by The Rich Eisen Show. "'No matter what happens, no matter what was said or what you’re heard, that guy is an idiot.’"
According to Arizona Republic, Lovullo heard the fan’s comment but didn’t want to repeat it. “I looked right at [Marte] when I heard,” he said. “I looked right at him, and he looked at the person, as well. He put his head down and I could tell it had an immediate impact on him, for sure."
Elsewhere in the post-game interview, the manager called the moment "terrible" and reflected on why he stood up for Marte. "Fans are nasty, and fans go too far sometimes," he said. "I love my players, and I’m gonna protect them…I’ve known Ketel for nine years. He’s had some unbelievably great moments and some hardships as well and some really tough moments in his life. I know those. At the end of the day, we’re human beings, and we have emotions. I saw him hurting, and I wanted to protect him."
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The following day, the Chicago White Sox X account sent out a message in support of Marte, writing, "We’re with you" and "Baseball is family." On The Rich Eisen Show, the show's host addressed the need to eradicate this kind of toxic athlete-fan interaction: "I was hearing [people saying], 'There’s no place for this in major league baseball.' There isn’t. There’s no place for this in our society. I understand that people are saying the MLB has got to do something about this. Fans have a right to heckle players—this is something that has happened forever…But there is a line."
In another recent, depressing sports moment with a beautiful coda, let’s look to Game 7 of the NBA Finals between the Indiana Pacers and the eventual champions, the Oklahoma City Thunder. During the first quarter, Pacers point guard Tyrese Haliburton tore his right Achilles tendon—a devastating injury that could potentially sideline him for most of the 2025-2026 season. Following the game, in a lovely display of sportsmanship, Thunder point-guard and league MVP Shai Gilgeous-Alexander went to the Pacers locker room to check on his competitor. In a press conference, he said, "You just hate to see it, in sports in general. But in this moment, my heart dropped for him. I can't imagine playing the biggest game of my life and something like that happening. It’s so unfortunate."
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