Happiness can be tricky to hold onto, especially on days when our mental health takes a hit. While popular strategies like journaling and meditation can offer great benefits, they often feel daunting or hard to maintain consistently.
TikToker Jacey Adler (@jaceyadler) found herself looking for a simpler, yet impactful practice. She discovered what she calls her "happiness list," a straightforward method of noting anything that sparks joy throughout her day. Adler shared her simple routine on TikTok, sparking enthusiasm from her followers who say it's noticeably improved their daily mental well-being.
Adler's journey to creating her happiness list began out of necessity. "I started my happiness list in July 2023 after experiencing a rough period with my mental health," Adler explained to Newsweek. "I had been struggling with depression for a couple of months and really felt like I had no energy to do my normal practices like journaling or meditation."
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She emphasizes the simplicity of this practice in her video, stating, "Doing this one small thing every single day absolutely changed the game for my mental health. I've tried so many things to improve my mental health, and this is so easy and actually changes the way I feel on a day-to-day basis."
Rather than writing on paper, Adler uses her phone's Notes app. "I created this Notes app in my phone and separated it by month, and every time something makes me happy—even the smallest little thing like I walk into a store and my favorite song is playing—I put it on this list," she shares. "It can be anything, small or big. I really just feel like it rewires your brain to just focus and tune yourself to the little things that are going on."
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She stresses that joy often lies in small moments rather than major life events. "We are so wired to just focus on these big moments to give us happiness, and often it's just not sustainable—and not really how you feel joy on a day-to-day basis," Adler explains. "Doing this has made me so aware of all the little moments in my day that are there to give me happiness and to make me feel alive and good."
Adler also highlights the ease of the method: "You can do it anywhere—it is so, so easy. I just love being able to look back at all the moments that make me happy. It's such a good reminder when I'm in a funk."
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The positive impact of her video resonated deeply with viewers, many of whom shared their gratitude in the comments. "This is absolutely life changing. Thank you so much," one follower commented. Another wrote, "Thank you :,) I’m going through a breakup and have been trying to be really intentional with my mental journey out of it, and this is perfect. 🫶🏻" One more person shared their own experience: "I’ve been doing this for years. Recently read all my fav memories to my husband and we cried and giggled together at the beauty of life 💖."
This article was originally published earlier this year.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.